Choose a Team
You can come up with all kinds of creative schedules and
combinations if you get two reliable nannies. The advantage of having a “team”
is that if one gets sick, and you cannot afford to miss your own workdays, you
have a back up nanny in your second.
If this all seems like too much for
you, you may want to ease into this situation and hire someone a few days a week
until you are more comfortable about relinquishing control of your child to a
nanny.
Non-nanny domestic employees
If you have other workers in the
house, you have to do some human relations work to make sure that your team
works well with each other. Some families have a housekeeper in addition to a
nanny. Some families have gardeners once a month or once a week or more. Some
have cooks or personal assistants. Some have pool boys or plant doctors once a
month. The most important thing you can do to make sure everyone gets along and
your home runs like a well oiled ship is to delegate clearly, and don’t
overload one employee with more than they can handle – especially when there is
a child involved.
The last thing you want is a nanny who is doing four things
at once, and doesn’t see the child eating the housekeepers
laundry soap or slipping out the backdoor while the UPS
delivery man is having the nanny sign for packages.
Clarity promotes
health and safety.
If you have a very busy household,
make sure that you hire a nanny who fits in and is comfortable.
If you don’t want the child being
in the cook’s care or the gardener’s care, be very clear about this with your
nanny. If these boundaries become blurred or blatantly violated, make them
clear to all your employees, not just the nanny.
Do you need a nanny
to travel with you?
If you travel a lot for your job,
or if you travel regularly for your job and you want to bring your nanny and
your child (or children), make sure that you let the nanny know this in the job
interview. If this traveling is a pre-requisite for the job, be sure to make
this clear. If the nanny has children or a husband, make sure that the nanny
has made provisions for them while she is traveling with you.
Some families want a nanny to accompany them on vacations
and take care of the child (or children) while the parents dine out or attend
adult activities either with or without the child. The nanny may be expected to
accompany the family on these restaurant and party
occasions, or may get time off on her own during these vacations. Let the nanny
know, again, with as much advance notice as possible – whether it’s in the job
interview – or as soon as you realize you need her help on the trip.